Why Money Doesn’t Solve Money Problems

The raise you are hoping to get is not going to fix your financial squeeze.

I mean even if you were making what your boss is making, it will not fix your financial squeeze.

why money doesn't solve money problemsThere is a famous principle called Parkinson’s Law that essentially says that expenses rise to meet income, so if you are having a hard time paying your bills or making a dent in your mountain of debt money is NOT your answer.

I know it may sound like this is bad news, but really this is great news.

This is because money problems (difficulty paying bills, paying off debt, getting into debt, difficulty saving) are often behavioral problems.

And behavioral problems can NOT be solved with money.

People seem to think that they can make their problems go away with more money, but really it just covers them up. This is apparent with all of the millionaires who file for bankruptcy.

They have more money than most people can dream of, yet they also have a spending problem that is far stronger than their income.

How do you fix behavioral problems? Well, you start by asking God for help and then begin just doing one small thing at a time. It is a lot easier to update your house by working on one room at a time than by tearing up every room all at once.

You can start by learning to not spend more than you make.

There are practical things that can be done to help out, but I think nothing will be more valuable than just taking a long hard look at where your money is going and asking yourself, “do I really need this?”.

We say we NEED all this stuff to survive and yet 100 years ago most of it didn’t even exist. I think when we are honest with ourselves we can see that a lot of our NEEDS are really just screaming, yelling, panicky WANTS.

1 Timothy 6:8 is what I am striving for, how about you?

But godliness with contentment is great gain. For we brought nothing into the world, and we can take nothing out of it.  8 But if we have food and clothing, we will be content with that.”

















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  1. Amen brother!

    In fact, I feel that it’s a good indicator that you’ve got a problem if you feel that all your money woes will go away if you could make more money.

    My wife and I were unfortunately a case study in this principle. We went through ten years of “prosperity” where in that time I nearly tripled what I was making and now I make what many would consider a very large salary.

    But, living beyond our means all those years has put us in a rough spot now and we will be penny-pinching for the next 10 years instead of enjoying our increase and building our net worth.

  2. What you say is so true. My husband and I are bad examples of this principle, too. When we were first married, we lived on peanuts (or so it seemed). When our income increased, so did our spending, and we’re really no better off.

    Now we’re changing our habits. I guess we needed to learn the hard way.

  3. @Budgetman
    Yea,
    I seem to hear the same story over and over again – why can’t people catch on to this principle earlier on in life? Like Lynnae said, we all just LOVE to learn the hard way :)

  4. Third-World Country? How many World’s exist?

    Good post.

  5. I tried to tell my ADD that my behavioral problems are not money related but it rarely ever listens. it’s too busy bouncing off the walls. ^_^

  6. I think you’re right, having more money does not make money problems go away, nor does it hide poor money management skills. It merely elevates you to another level of problems.

  7. If you’ve ever watched TLC’s Til Debt Do Us Part, you’ll realize that at some points the financial planner in the show tells the couple they need to go out and “Make More Money” to solve their financial woes. Although I agree if you’re living and spending frivolously and that is the pure cause of your money problems then money probably won’t solve your problem but if you’re living just above the poverty line and not spending anything more than the basics and “just” cover the bills money is likely to make you more comfortable if you make more of it and know how to manage it. I find your statement too generalized.

    • I agree with Lisa. If you are barely making ends meet then I think more money is a better solution. That statement that is made is generalized and not true of everyone. On the other hand if your problem is money going out and you are making more enough to make ends meet then you might have a point.

  8. One situation in which more money would be a help is when one spouse loses a job. Then the inability to pay bills is truly due to a shortfall in income, not to spending above one’s means. On the plus side, when I am employed again (please let that day be soon), we’ve learned many ways to live as frugally as possible.

    • I agree with you Lisa. I lost my job last month and am trying to find ways to do more with less income. Best wishes to you on your search for a job. I pray you find one soon.

  9. When my husband and I were first married money was not a problem. I never knew much about his business but when he lost it, boy did I learn fast. After a long time of selling off everything we owned and left for a new country we finally put the past behind us. This seems way out there for most of you. And it is. We started watching every cent that we had and working on the future realigning on God as our savior. Many im rivals seemed to happen and we soon learned a huge leson that money was never our problem. After years of penny pinching we are still pushing forward and know now what is real. God

  10. Donna Smith

    I like the principle however when you have cut everything out except things you are unable to like housing and you have cut your housing already, the need to raise the amount incoming is still a real one. If I spent less I would be going to the food pantry and actually have done so many times. Sometimes you really do need to make more in this high priced world.

  11. Dear Bob,

    I want to congratulate you for yet another great article, so Congratulations! I always enjoy reading your blog, as it provides insights into money matters that not many people around me would be comfortable speaking openly about.
    This article reminds me how very much I enjoy reading your blog!

    Bless,
    Raka

  12. Very good post! Only when we are content with little will we learn to do better with more. Otherwise, more income means more spending. I wish we had learned this earlier when our income was higher.

  13. I agree with Lisa. I think you are painting with a pretty broad brush here. For a lot of people this may be true. For people like my husband and me we have been dealing with some pretty tough circumstances. First he lost his job about 2 years ago but fortunately did find a new one relatively quickly. Last year and the beginning of this year have been overwhelming. His mother ended up in the hospital and then a nursing home and then within 3 months passed away. Right after that my father ended up in the hospital then a nursing home and died in February. Right after my father went into the nursing home I lost my job. I just started a new one last month. I collected unemployment for about 10 months. Both of our cars are part of that big GM recall so we’ve had to juggle getting them to a dealer for repairs (mine actually broke down) and dealing with renting a car. My husband ended up in the emergency room back in March and had to be admitted to the hospital for emergency surgery. He has had a couple more procedures and hospital stays (he’s doing well now). Yes we have insurance but we still have deductibles, co-pays and other out-of pocket expenses. Did I mention our garage door opener came crashing down last fall and we had to replace both the garage door and opener. I am not fishing for sympathy or wallowing in self-pity. We are both working now and making some headway. Just please don’t generalize. There are some situations beyond people’s control where having more money would be a huge blessing.

  14. Living within your means is a good starting point. I am learning that as your family grows, so do your expenses…duh. So there comes a time when you need to increase your means…challenging article.

  15. I don’t see how Bob is making a generalization. At the beginning of the blog he said money problems are often due to behavioral problems, so he was speaking to that particular group. If it was not a problem, Dave Ramsey would not be so successful. My heart pours out to all of you. May God bless you, your families and see you through a triumphant victory over your circumstances.

  16. I can attest to this being true. My wife and I were in the most debt when we made the most money. We actually make less now than we used to, but we are completely debt free now. We used to be over $20,000 in consumer debt. It really is about your behavioral habits. It’s the same for building wealth. Great article, Bob!

  17. I agree with James, that Bob is not generalizing but speaking about those specifically with behavioral problems when it comes to money.
    I do believe that there are spiritual attacks on strong Christian who do actively manage money wisely (a dear friend of mine is a victim of such attacks at the moment).

    However, I think the majority of Americans are in debt due to behavioral problems, and not due to lacking money. I am very thankful to see the testimony of others in their early years of marriage and how they wish they had been wiser with their money then. My husband and I are in our first two years of marriage and we are actively putting principles found in this article to use in managing our money. We went through Dave Ramsey’s FPU course and it was such a God send. While we make less than $25,000 a year and are both still in school, we are not in debt and we are building up our emergency fund (VERY slowly, but it’s happening!).

    Thanks, Bob, for this great post and for sharing the Bible verse. I want to write it down and put it on my wall as encouragement that it is okay that I am not living as luxuriously as others around me. :)

  18. I agree with most of this, except in the case of student loan debt. This has crippled my ability to truly enjoy life, due to the fact that I put too much emphasis on getting a “good education.”

    I believe that we need to teach our kids about being self sufficient. That, while a degree is a great tool, if that tool takes over 15 years to pay off…you would be far better off capitalizing your raw talents.

    I’ve learned this the hard way. True, my degree has gotten me decent jobs, but at what price?? I now and living paycheck to paycheck. paying off loans and for the other necessities in life…gas, rent, food….and the rare trip to see my family for the holidays.

  19. This post comes very close to reflecting the reason I got into teaching personal finance about 30 years ago after getting my own money affairs in order. I discovered a principle that is largely ignored but is the basis for any financial success in my opinion.

    Success with money begins with getting in control of your spending and other financial affairs. Most people can’t do it because they do not know how. Of course, as some comments suggest, there can be events like massive health issues that overwhelm us, but mostly increased income just evaporates because people have no idea how to manage their money effectively.

    You can use the old envelope system to help or many other approaches, but once you get in control of your money it is relatively easy to pay off debt, establish an emergency fund, and do the other things that lead to success.

  20. Hi,
    credit cards are one of the main reason for woes.
    credit cards force us to spend more than we earn.
    regards
    vinodh

  21. I have been an IRS tax collector for more than 25 years (a Senior tax collector) and thus most of my “clients” owe hundreds of thousands of dollars in income taxes. The majority of these folks are self employed and earn a very good income ($250,000 and up). I can truly tell you that easily 95% of these folks are in debt to the government (and usually to many other creditors) because they live way beyond their means. I’m astonished that these folks earn SO MUCH and yet have ALMOST NOTHING to show for it.

    In just a few minutes I will be knocking on the front door of an “Investment Advisor” who owes nearly $700,000 in income tax which has compounded by filing balance due tax returns every year since 2007. More than likely, when I get a financial statement from him, it will show he earned $300,000 last year but he has no equity in anything.

    Solomon said it well in Proverbs 22:7 – “The borrower becomes the lender’s (or the Government’s) SLAVE.” I prefer God’s way which can be found in Hebrews 13:5 -”Let your way of life be FREE from the love of money, being content with what you have…”

    You think about that.

  22. Charmaine Riley

    This advice is great, and I had problems in my past spending too much money. But with
    prayer you can determine what goals are important in life.

  23. Allison P.

    I just learned that God provides for us what we need for each season of our lives and when we think we need more we are telling God He is not a good provider because He hasn’t provided enough for us. 3 points: 1. God is our provider and creator He knows what is best for each of us. 2. It is just a season. We must understand that each stage of our lives are seasonal good or bad. Sometimes we are going through something very challenging and we think we will never get through, then we do. That season has ended and it is time to move on. 3. We must always maintain an intimate relationship with our caring, sharing, loving Father so we can be aware of what season we are in and except it, grow in it, learn from it, and draw closer to Him. So instead of focusing on the “not enough” we ask God what His purpose for this season is so that we can see clearly where He is leading us and what He is preparing us for in the next season of our lives.
    I strongly believe all the challenges we face in life are just distractions from what God truly has purposed for each of us and therefore It really isn’t about money it is about the character God is developing within you!

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